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 11/03/2009 09:38 PM
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Shenanigans Senior Executive

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So, to Queen, and all the other happy pro-choicers here, esp. the "all through pregnancy for any reason" type:
I would very much like to know how an invdividual gets to the point where they can support abortion at any stage of pregnancy for any reason. What's your mindset?
Now before you harp in on your arguments about bodily autonomy and the ZEF not being human and donation and et al, what I'm inquiring is what events in your life, or life experiences or words of wisdom have you heard that makes you reach that conclusion?
Did you know someone who coat hangered?
Did you at once support abortion till a certain point, for a certain reason or for no reason?
I'll advise you, if you've had an abortion, not to make that public as there are enough threads filled with "murdering whore roach arse poop eating hillbilly obama spongebob spaghetti" bullocks.
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 11/03/2009 09:57 PM
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Billson Junior Member

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I feel like I shouldn't be posting here, as I am, in fact, pro-life, but I might be able to shed some light on it.
Here in the Northwest, it's just the way people think. We have comedians that make snide comments about Bush and about any political view he espouses, teachers that will point out in passing "which is why *insert Republican idea here* is only held by complete morons, and a general vibe of pro-choice.
It's not that people arrive at the conclusion that the baby isn't a person, they gradually have it programmed into their heads until they're old enough to actually understand what the issue is.
The only reasons I was saved from such delusions were 1) A summer with my very intelligent, very kind hearted Catholic grandmother that seemed very reasonable and empathetic about her pro-life views and 2) A philosophy class that inspired me to actually think about issues beyond what people kept drilling into my head to think of them.
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Because in the absence of certainty, when choice and life are set at each others' throats in their bitter and terrible struggle, there can be only one victor. Life is all.
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 11/03/2009 10:04 PM
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Shenanigans Senior Executive

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I don't mind that you answered. Every answer sheds a little bit of light on this debacle that is abortion.
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 11/04/2009 08:11 PM
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SpitMcGee Member

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I opposed abortion when I was younger, but have changed my mind since. Personally, it is something that I would never want to have. But it isn't in my place to tell other women they can't. I think that the alteration of a woman's identity from a self-identified autonomous person to a mother are conditions she should have control over.
There are many things that bother me about the pro-life movement--the rosy view of pregnancy, the notion that women should submit without complaint to this dramatic change in body and identity because it's "natural," and the belief that those who don't want to be mothers lack some core element of womanhood.
Women are not passive participants in gestation. They don't just sit back and allow the miracle to take place. The "miracle" is powered by the vital elements of their own bodies: their blood, oxygen, hormones, and energy. Pro-lifers describe fetuses as if the difference between them and an autonomous individual is a mere matter of location. It's not. An autonomous individual does not depend on the vital bodily resources of another person. Pro-lifers seem to take for granted that a fetus's "right to life" automatically takes precedence over the rights of the owner of body in which it inhabits.
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 11/04/2009 09:19 PM
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sweet Executive Member

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Originally posted by: SpitMcGee
I opposed abortion when I was younger, but have changed my mind since. Personally, it is something that I would never want to have. But it isn't in my place to tell other women they can't. I think that the alteration of a woman's identity from a self-identified autonomous person to a mother are conditions she should have control over.you were on the right track when you opposed abortion. children can't speak up for themselves that's why there's laws against child abuse.
There are many things that bother me about the pro-life movement--the rosy view of pregnancy, the notion that women should submit without complaint to this dramatic change in body and identity because it's "natural," and the belief that those who don't want to be mothers lack some core element of womanhood. i don't think pregnancy should be viewed as negative, but as the result of having sex!
Women are not passive participants in gestation. They don't just sit back and allow the miracle to take place. The "miracle" is powered by the vital elements of their own bodies: their blood, oxygen, hormones, and energy. Pro-lifers describe fetuses as if the difference between them and an autonomous individual is a mere matter of location. It's not. An autonomous individual does not depend on the vital bodily resources of another person. Pro-lifers seem to take for granted that a fetus's "right to life" automatically takes precedence over the rights of the owner of body in which it inhabits.women are passive participants...they can't control their blood flow or any other bodily function. and an 'automomous' person DOES depend on resources from God...it is He who allows breath to be in their body and the body of the child within the womb... also, as a married woman, myself, i don't 'own my body'...it is shared with my husband...(and children while pregnant)
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 11/04/2009 09:32 PM
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nancyu Executive VP

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Originally posted by: SpitMcGee
I opposed abortion when I was younger, but have changed my mind since. Personally, it is something that I would never want to have. But it isn't in my place to tell other women they can't. I think that the alteration of a woman's identity from a self-identified autonomous person to a mother are conditions she should have control over.
There are many things that bother me about the pro-life movement--the rosy view of pregnancy, the notion that women should submit without complaint to this dramatic change in body and identity because it's "natural," and the belief that those who don't want to be mothers lack some core element of womanhood.
Women are not passive participants in gestation. They don't just sit back and allow the miracle to take place. The "miracle" is powered by the vital elements of their own bodies: their blood, oxygen, hormones, and energy. Pro-lifers describe fetuses as if the difference between them and an autonomous individual is a mere matter of location. It's not. An autonomous individual does not depend on the vital bodily resources of another person. Pro-lifers seem to take for granted that a fetus's "right to life" automatically takes precedence over the rights of the owner of body in which it inhabits.
It is exactly your place to tell women that they can NOT kill their own child. If you don't who will? Planned Parenthood? They SELL abortions. That is how they make their living. If you are selling vacuum cleaners do you tell your customer that they DON'T need one?
Look at this.
Pregnancy Options Info:
http://www.pregnancyoptions.info/
As you see it asks one question. "Is this the right time to bring a new life into the world through my body?"
Then, the woman can choose from three possible answers "NO", " YES", and "I DON'T KNOW"
Now if a woman chooses "NO", she is given info regarding abortion. If she chooses "I DON'T KNOW" She is giving info regarding abortion. If she chooses YES, she is given info regarding abortion! Why? She is ready to be a parent, she wants her child, WHY do they THINK she would want info on ABORTION.
You think spit, that it is not your place to tell a woman she CAN'T kill her child. Ask yourself this question: WHY do you think it is your place to tell a woman that she CAN? Are you in the abortion biz? Do you get a commission on the hit?
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All unborn children are personsAbortion is NOT LEGALRead the ConstitutionDefend the Child
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 11/04/2009 11:46 PM
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QueenJ Executive Member

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Originally posted by: nancyu
It is exactly your place to tell women that they can NOT kill their own child. If you don't who will? Planned Parenthood? They SELL abortions. That is how they make their living. If you are selling vacuum cleaners do you tell your customer that they DON'T need one?
Look at this.
Pregnancy Options Info:
http://www.pregnancyoptions.info/
As you see it asks one question. "Is this the right time to bring a new life into the world through my body?"
Then, the woman can choose from three possible answers "NO", " YES", and "I DON'T KNOW"
Now if a woman chooses "NO", she is given info regarding abortion. If she chooses "I DON'T KNOW" She is giving info regarding abortion. If she chooses YES, she is given info regarding abortion! Why? She is ready to be a parent, she wants her child, WHY do they THINK she would want info on ABORTION.
You think spit, that it is not your place to tell a woman she CAN'T kill her child. Ask yourself this question: WHY do you think it is your place to tell a woman that she CAN? Are you in the abortion biz? Do you get a commission on the hit?
You need to back away from the computer, take a few deep breaths, and calm the hell down, Nancy.
You're talking nothing but NONSENSE.
First of all, the site you linked to? What connection or affiliation does it even have with Planned Parenthood?
And second, the ONLY option they discuss is abortion?
Then what is this?
HAVING A BABY/BEING A PARENT
"What should I do first if I want this baby?"
Get medical care as soon as you think you might be pregnant. Ask friends who are recent mothers which doctors or midwives they liked. Or, look in the yellow pages of the phone book under "Physicians - Obstetricians" sometimes known as "OB-GYN." You may also want to see a nurse midwife who can also deliver your baby. Or consult your hospital for a birth clinic. If you think you can´t afford to see a doctor, ask your county public assistance or Medicaid program about a special program for pregnant women.
"What is a nurse-midwife?"
They are nurses who are specially trained to deliver babies and give women care during their pregnancies. Midwives can give you lots of support during the pregnancy and during labor. They prefer more natural childbirth and less "high tech" monitoring and medication. Nurse-midwives work with doctors and can call one in if you need one.
"Are there things I should or shouldn´t eat?"
Yes! What you eat affects your baby, so eat well and take the vitamins your doctor prescribes. Especially in the first twelve weeks you need lots of folic acid, vitamin B12 and other minerals and vitamins to prevent certain birth defects. Generally, you want to eat good food-- fresh or frozen fruits and vegetables, lots of dairy foods, proteins, and whole grain foods. You want to stay away from "junk food" and fried or fatty foods that don´t give you much nutrition. Also, avoid or reduce caffeine in coffee, tea, or soda.
"Do I have to quit smoking and drinking?"
Yes, definitely. Stay away from alcohol and tobacco and street drugs. Quitting reduces the risk of still birth, SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome), premature birth, small or sick babies, and some birth defects. Quit as soon as you know you are pregnant. Quitting anytime will help prevent problems for your baby but the sooner the better. (See "What can harm my baby?")
"Can I do it alone?"
This is one of the most important questions to ask yourself. Will I have support in raising a child? What about the baby´s father, your or his family, friends? It is very difficult to do this alone. And remember, support comes in many forms-- financial, emotional, physical, social. Do the exercises in the next section to see how much support you can count on.
"What kind of financial support is available from welfare/social services?"
There are programs like PCAP and Medicaid that might help with medical costs. Your county social services department may be able to help with very basic living expenses. But, the laws are changing for teenagers living at home. Mothers with children under 6 are now being expected to work. The father of the baby will also be expected to provide financial support. Call your local office and ask about possible benefits. WIC (Women, Infants, and Children) can help with nutritious food during pregnancy and up to age 5 for your child. There may be other forms of assistance in your community. Private agencies like Family and Children´s Society, Catholic Social Services, Women´s Centers, Pregnancy Centers, and other groups may be able to help.
"Can I make it through labor?"
The average length of labor for a first time mother is between 12 and 24 hours. It is understandable to fear labor. But, fear of labor should not be the most important factor in your decision to have a child. There are many choices in delivering a baby. Natural childbirth is having a baby without any pain medications. Or, your doctor may offer some pain medications. Or you can have complete pain relief with an "epidural anesthesia" where you are numb from the waist down. Talk these over with your doctor or midwife.
"What is labor like? Can you describe it?"
It´s different for all women. Each step may take more time or less time. Each women has a different pain tolerance. Most labor is "do-able." At first, the contractions are not so bad and you can smile. The next stage is like having a bad headache "you can still function but it´s hard. Then you reach what they call "transition" where it is very difficult and you may not think you can do it. It´s like swimming in a rough ocean with waves hitting you one after another. This generally lasts about two hours. Then you feel an urge to push, and this part is better because you feel like you can work with your body. When the baby´s head starts to "crown" or come out you may start to feel overwhelmed by the stretching, pushing, and burning feelings. But this only lasts 10 minutes or so, and then the baby comes out.
Contractions work by pulling up on the cervix to open it wide and by pushing down on the baby to push it out. The cervix has to open 10 centimeters (about 4 1/2 inches). The first part of this opening process, up to 5 centimeters, takes a longer time and is easier than the last half. The last part of the dilation happens quickly, usually in about 2 hours.
"What is it like being a mother?"
Parenthood is hard work but it has many rewards-- your baby´s first smile, holding a small hand in yours, the love you see in your baby´s face when you walk in the room. You will have a huge influence on your baby, and your baby will have a huge influence on you.
What most new parents report is that they are exhausted and tired all the time. There will be sleepless nights and you will provide 24 hour care when necessary. You must consider the baby´s needs above your own. It´s important to be able to give nurturing love and to handle your own anger. Sometimes a baby or a child can be difficult, making you feel frustrated and angry. You have to know how to control your reactions.
You will definitely have less freedom in your life for a number of years. Many young mothers feel isolated and neglected. Others find great fulfillment in caring for their baby. Either way, asking for support is a good idea.
Babies won´t always be babies. Within a year, your baby will be walking around. In five years, he or she will be in school. In ten years, he or she will almost be a teenager!
"Will I be depressed after giving birth?"
It is completely normal to have the "baby blues" in the week or so after delivery. 80-90% of all women find that they cry a lot and feel moody during the first week. About 10-20% of all women also have "post partum depression" which makes them feel sad or want to cry. This can last for several weeks or up to a year or more.
Remember, you and your body have gone through a lot. And during the first month you are getting used to being tired all the time, feeding the baby 12 times a day, and hormonal changes. If the depression doesn´t go away after a week or two, talk to your doctor or midwife. Usually support, lifestyle changes, and counseling help. Sometimes some medicine, or rarely, hospitalization are needed. Also see: Exploring Your Feelings Afterwards
Having a baby/Being a parent exercises:
Where do you see yourself in 5 years? In 10 years?
Your Life Now:
Have you ever done any baby-sitting or childcare for younger brothers and sisters? What did you like about it? What didn´t you like about it?
What do you do on an average Saturday or Sunday? What do you look forward to?
Could you give that up and stay at home with the baby? Could you take a baby with you to those activities?
If you are still in school, can you continue? If you are working, when will you be able to return? Who will take care of your newborn? Who would take care of your child if you get sick?
The baby´s father:
Does he want to be a father to this child?
Does he have children already? How many?
Does he spend time with them? How often?
Does he provide financial support for his children? Do you know how much?
Do you expect him to help you raise your child? Does he want to?
Do you trust him to take care of a child? (Does he drink, do drugs, is he violent?)
If he is not part of your baby´s life, what can you tell your child about his/her father?
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Support-- Who Can Help?
What kind of support can you expect from each of the following people?
(Circle all that you think might happen)
Baby´s father?
Live with us? Get up in the middle of the night? Change diapers?
Read book to child? Play games with child? Help with homework?
Financial support until child is 18? Take care of the child when I need a break?
Take care of the child 50% of the time? Other _____________
My mother? My father?
Provide baby-sitting? everyday? weekends? once in a while? Buy things for the baby?
Let us live with her/him? Give us money regularly? Play with the child?
Other _____________
Baby´s father´s family?
Provide baby-sitting? everyday? weekends? once in a while? Buy things for the baby?
Let us live with her/him? Give us money regularly? Play with the child?
Other _____________
My brother or sister (name _________)?
Provide baby-sitting? everyday? weekends? once in a while? Buy things for the baby?
Let us live with her/him? Give us money regularly? Play with the child?
Other _____________
My friend (name ___________)?
Provide baby-sitting? everyday? weekends? once in a while? Buy things for the baby?
Let us live with her/him? Give us money regularly? Play with the child?
Other _____________
Other relatives (name ___________)?
Provide baby-sitting? everyday? weekends? once in a while? Buy things for the baby?
Let us live with her/him? Give us money regularly? Play with the child?
Other _____________
(Check out this information with the people involved.)
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FAMILY HISTORY
At what age did your mother have children?
At what age did your grandmothers have children?
How about your aunts, cousins, or sisters?
How was this for them? (ask them if you can) Find out how they felt about it then and how they feel about it now. What kind of support did they have?
Some questions for support people:
If you are expecting support from a parent or grandparent or anyone else, check it out with that person. Some parents say, "I´m done, I raised my children." Others might like the idea of helping out with a child. How much can they realistically help financially? How much time do they really have that they are willing to give you? Ask them.
Are you financially ready to have a child?
Having a child is expensive. You may get help with medical bills from insurance or social services. But diapers and formula are very expensive. So is clothing, baby equipment, food. And don´t forget childcare, books, classes, and school expenses. You might want to price some of these items to get a better idea about how much things cost.
Comments from women about birth and raising a child:
"Giving birth was much easier than I thought it would be."
"Giving birth was much harder than I thought it would be."
"My baby changed my life in ways I never dreamed of."
"Although the baby´s father could have helped me more, I´m the only one responsible."
"I could not have done this alone."
"Some nights are so hard I don´t know how I´ve gotten through them."
"I feel like I´m 37 instead of 17. I have no life."
"I can´t imagine my life without my kids."
"It seems like I went from paying off my college bills, to paying for pre-school, to paying off the orthodontist, to setting aside money for my kids´ college. It never ends!"
"My child is the light of my life."
"All these girls come back to school and talk about how cute their babies are. They never talk about how hard it is. It´s not easy."
"My head and my heart have finally come together with this decision, and I finally feel at peace with myself. I know it will be a long and trying road ahead but I will endure...."
"The saddest part is that I can't return to that place before the pregnancy."
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Creating a Time Line (Not Only for Teens)
How old will I be at each stage of my baby's life?
Put events in your life on the time line. For example on your side: prom, driver's license, graducation, college, first job, marriage, first apartment, owning a car. On the baby's side of the time line put the following:
When my baby is______ I will be ____ years old.
6-9 months: can crawl
12-14 months: begins walking and talking
2-3 years: toilet training
4-5 years: pre-school or school
6-11: after school activities, lessons
12-13: teenager
16 years: can get driver's license
18 years: college or job
RESOURCES
ORGANIZATIONS
WIC (Women, Infants, Children) Vouchers for nutritious food for pregnant women and children. Call your County Health Department.
PCAP Medicaid- This is a government supported insurance program for pregnant women. In states where Medicaid covers abortion, it may cover that too. It is a temporary insurance, but can help with medical costs during a pregnancy. Call your County Dept. of Social Services.
CLASSES and information may also be available at local hospitals, agencies and doctors' offices.
BOOKS
WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU´RE EXPECTING, by Arlene Eisenberg, Heidi Markoff, Sardee W. Hathaway, BSN, Workman Publ.
PREGNANCY, CHILDBIRTH, AND THE NEWBORN: The Complete Guide, Penny Simkin.
THE COMPLETE BOOK OF PREGNANCY AND CHILDBIRTH by Sheila Kitzinger
WHAT TO EXPECT THE FIRST YEAR OF LIFE, by Eisenberg, Murkoff, and Hathaway.
CARING FOR YOUR BABY AND YOUNG CHILD: BIRTH TO AGE 5, American Academy of Pediatrics
OTHER RESOURCES
"Mama: Your Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy" (free) March of Dimes call 1-888 MODIMES or www.modimes.org.
www.HipMama.com -- Hip Mama magazine and website for young women who are mothers.
www.girl-mom.com -- discussion site for teen mothers.
www.choicelinkup.com -- a listing of many pregnancy related resources on the web.
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Until every woman, everywhere is able to easily access safe, legal, private, affordable abortions, for whatever reason, at any time, on demand, without interference from outside parties and most importantly - without apology or shame.
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leftsnemesis Member

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Originally posted by: SpitMcGee
There are many things that bother me about the pro-life movement--the rosy view of pregnancy, the notion that women should submit without complaint to this dramatic change in body and identity because it's "natural," and the belief that those who don't want to be mothers lack some core element of womanhood.
Women are not passive participants in gestation. They don't just sit back and allow the miracle to take place. The "miracle" is powered by the vital elements of their own bodies: their blood, oxygen, hormones, and energy. Pro-lifers describe fetuses as if the difference between them and an autonomous individual is a mere matter of location. It's not. An autonomous individual does not depend on the vital bodily resources of another person. Pro-lifers seem to take for granted that a fetus's "right to life" automatically takes precedence over the rights of the owner of body in which it inhabits.
Off the rails and picking up speed, destination unknown. That just sounds like the biggest crock of crap to me. Not even close to the real truth of your motivation.
Everyone has two reasons for every thing they say or do.. A Good Reason.. and The Real Reason. That was your good one.
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We say grace and we say Ma'am and if you aint into that we don't give a Damn. -Hank Williams Jr. (Country Boy Can Survive) -circa 1981
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leftsnemesis Member

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Originally posted by: QueenJ
I sat on my glasses and now I can finally see myself as others do.
So.. you've had a break through. Good for you.
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We say grace and we say Ma'am and if you aint into that we don't give a Damn. -Hank Williams Jr. (Country Boy Can Survive) -circa 1981
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QueenJ Executive Member

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Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
Off the rails and picking up speed, destination unknown. That just sounds like the biggest crock of crap to me. Not even close to the real truth of your motivation.
Everyone has two reasons for every thing they say or do.. A Good Reason.. and The Real Reason. That was your good one.
Don't keep us hanging like that, leftsnemesis! Do tell, what is the *insert spooky, ominous music here* REAL reason behind our (the pro-abortionallthetimeeverytimewecantgetenoughofabortionomgbbqlolwtfABORTIONYAY!) motivation?
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QueenJ Executive Member

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Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
Originally posted by: QueenJ
I sat on my glasses and now I can finally see myself as others do.
So.. you've had a break through. Good for you.
You can't find fault in the actual words that I've said so you've resorted to making stuff up? Good to know where you're at, man, good too know.
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sk1bianca Executive Member

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so it's ok to kill an unborn kid just because he's attached to his mom and his life depends on her?
you said you were pro-life. it's not like you suddenly had a flash of light and came to this conclusion... please explain why you think this reason is good enough to have him dismembered and thrown in the trash. you didn't think that before.
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leftsnemesis Member

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Originally posted by: QueenJ
Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
Originally posted by: QueenJ
I sat on my glasses and now I can finally see myself as others do.
So.. you've had a break through. Good for you.
You can't find fault in the actual words that I've said so you've resorted to making stuff up? Good to know where you're at, man, good too know.
ROTFLMAO... sure Queeny, that's it, your words are just too darn strong, (smelling).
I think I've discovered one of your weaknesses, Queen-For-A-Day, you can't take a joke. Thin skinned and Hell bound.. quite a combo. You know,.. when you get hit like that, it would better serve your image to respond with something like; "Good one.. nice burn!" and then come back with a quick one of your own. Mind you that this is you're one and only free personality lesson. From here on out.. it's going to cost you.
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We say grace and we say Ma'am and if you aint into that we don't give a Damn. -Hank Williams Jr. (Country Boy Can Survive) -circa 1981
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QueenJ Executive Member

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Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
Off the rails and picking up speed, destination unknown. That just sounds like the biggest crock of crap to me. Not even close to the real truth of your motivation.
Everyone has two reasons for every thing they say or do.. A Good Reason.. and The Real Reason. That was your good one.
Don't keep us hanging like that, leftsnemesis! Do tell, what is the *insert spooky, ominous music here* REAL reason behind our (the pro-abortionallthetimeeverytimewecantgetenoughofabortionomgbbqlolwtfABORTIONYAY!) motivation?
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QueenJ Executive Member

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Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
ROTFLMAO... sure Queeny, that's it, your words are just too darn strong, (smelling).
What I said was, "You can't find fault in the actual words that I've said so you've resorted to making stuff up?"
I see fault. I see actual. I see stuff. I'm not seeing strong or strength or any other word alluding to the prowess of my words. Freudian slip on your part, perhaps? Although, my words must have some heft to them since the only insult (if you can call it that) you could come up with is that they ... smell.
Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
I think I've discovered one of your weaknesses, Queen-For-A-Day, you can't take a joke. Thin skinned and Hell bound.. quite a combo.
I can take jokes just fine. They do have to, at the very least, rise above the kindergarten level for me to really take much interest in them, though.
Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
You know,.. when you get hit like that, it would better serve your image to respond with something like; "Good one.. nice burn!" and then come back with a quick one of your own.
You said that my words ... ... ... smell. Maybe that's hard-hitting, edgy comedy where you live, but my 3-year-old niece can come up with better stuff than that. I was left wanting when I read your "nice burn."
Originally posted by: leftsnemesis
Mind you that this is you're one and only free personality lesson. From here on out.. it's going to cost you.
It's going to cost me? What is it going to cost me? Brain cells? Second-hand embarrassment?
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Until every woman, everywhere is able to easily access safe, legal, private, affordable abortions, for whatever reason, at any time, on demand, without interference from outside parties and most importantly - without apology or shame.
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 11/05/2009 09:03 PM
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saucie Executive Member

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Originally posted by: Argern
Originally posted by: sk1bianca
so it's ok to kill an unborn kid just because he's attached to his mom and his life depends on her?
Well if she dies, the kid is f**ked anyway, isn't it?
So what if she wants to end her life?
Go wash your mouth out with lye.
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A nation of sheep will beget a government of wolves. - Edward R. Murrow The first liberal was satan.
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 11/05/2009 10:16 PM
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Shenanigans Senior Executive

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Originally posted by: Argern
Well if she dies, the kid is f**ked anyway, isn't it?
Yeah, that tends to happen, especially if junior isn't at the point of viability yet.
So what if she wants to end her life?
Then killing the ZEF won't help her, getting her solid mental health care will.
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 11/06/2009 04:49 AM
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nancyu Executive VP

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Originally posted by: sweet
Originally posted by: SpitMcGee
I opposed abortion when I was younger, but have changed my mind since. Personally, it is something that I would never want to have. But it isn't in my place to tell other women they can't. I think that the alteration of a woman's identity from a self-identified autonomous person to a mother are conditions she should have control over.you were on the right track when you opposed abortion. children can't speak up for themselves that's why there's laws against child abuse.
There are many things that bother me about the pro-life movement--the rosy view of pregnancy, the notion that women should submit without complaint to this dramatic change in body and identity because it's "natural," and the belief that those who don't want to be mothers lack some core element of womanhood. i don't think pregnancy should be viewed as negative, but as the result of having sex!
Women are not passive participants in gestation. They don't just sit back and allow the miracle to take place. The "miracle" is powered by the vital elements of their own bodies: their blood, oxygen, hormones, and energy. Pro-lifers describe fetuses as if the difference between them and an autonomous individual is a mere matter of location. It's not. An autonomous individual does not depend on the vital bodily resources of another person. Pro-lifers seem to take for granted that a fetus's "right to life" automatically takes precedence over the rights of the owner of body in which it inhabits.
women are passive participants...they can't control their blood flow or any other bodily function. and an 'automomous' person DOES depend on resources from God...it is He who allows breath to be in their body and the body of the child within the womb... also, as a married women, myself, i don't 'own my body'...it is shared with my husband...(and children while pregnant)
Another great response, sweet!
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All unborn children are persons Abortion is NOT LEGAL Read the Constitution Defend the Child
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