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Why should a woman who is acting responsibly be forced into motherhood just because her birth control failed?
The idea that when someone is “acting responsibly” they should be
immune from consequences is nonsense. Even when people are
driving their cars responsibly, they can still get into accidents and
they are still responsible for the damage they do. In the case of
sexual activity, acting responsibly goes beyond just taking steps to
avoid pregnancy. It is also accepting – before having sex – that
a child may be conceived. Abortion is about letting people avoid
this part of their responsibility.
Also, if women should not be forced to take on the responsibilities of
having a child simply because their birth control failed, do we extend
this same option to men? If a man was “acting responsibly” by
using a condom and his partner was “acting responsibly” by using birth
control, if a pregnancy results and he offers to pay for an abortion,
should we say that he has fulfilled his legal obligations? This
is especially relevant given that if she decides to abort he is legally
powerless to stop her, but if she doesn’t abort he can be forced to pay
for a child whose intentional execution he could not legally
prevent. If abortion is about equal rights – as the pro-choice
gang claims – how can “forced fatherhood” be right if “forced
motherhood” is wrong?
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